From 00:00:00 to 00:00:07 Okay, hello. Oh, okay, go ahead. From 00:00:07 to 00:00:17 So it's Jeff and Debbie answering questions from our daughters. And it's March 1, 2026. From 00:00:17 to 00:00:31 And it's a key year for us because this will be our 50th wedding anniversary. And we've been kind of keeping company since 1972 spring. From 00:00:31 to 00:00:37 When he stalked me. But we'll get into that, I digress. From 00:00:37 to 00:00:39 Okay. I'm stalking. From 00:00:39 to 00:00:48 We're ready. Hi, I'm Kelly, Jeff and Debbie's oldest daughter. From 00:00:48 to 00:00:55 What were your grandparents like? What special memories do you have of them? From 00:00:55 to 00:01:03 Well, there's a lot of information to impart on that. I knew three of my four grandparents. From 00:01:03 to 00:01:11 I'll start with the grandparents on my dad's side, who would have been Douglas and Gladys Hill. From 00:01:11 to 00:01:24 Unfortunately, Douglas Hill died in 1947 from tuberculosis before I was born. He'd be ravaged his family, all of his siblings, but one died of it. From 00:01:24 to 00:01:28 His mom died of it. So that was really hard. From 00:01:28 to 00:01:31 So I didn't get to know him. I knew of him. From 00:01:31 to 00:01:39 He was a giant of a man, physically tall, 6'7", 6'8", very skinny, probably didn't even weigh 200 pounds. From 00:01:39 to 00:01:46 And I heard he was a very kind, gentle, caring person. But I didn't know him. From 00:01:46 to 00:01:54 My wife, my grandmother, Gladys, and Gladys is about 5'2", so quite the opposite of Doug. From 00:01:54 to 00:02:01 And she was a spitfire. All you can say is she was a crazy, wacky lady. From 00:02:01 to 00:02:04 She was a strong woman. I think about her. From 00:02:04 to 00:02:09 Her husband died in '47. Her dad had died in 1946. From 00:02:09 to 00:02:14 Her mom was already deceased. And she had three little children to raise. From 00:02:14 to 00:02:19 And that was a lot in that period of time. But she was strong and good to it. From 00:02:19 to 00:02:24 And I loved being with her. She was just a crazy lady. From 00:02:24 to 00:02:31 In her later life, she wore wigs and you'd go over to her house and she said, "I'm going to flip my wig." And she'd pop it on and off. From 00:02:31 to 00:02:37 A lot of fun to hang out at her house. Have great fond memories of her. From 00:02:37 to 00:02:41 She lived in Cherry Creek too bad. We don't still own that house. From 00:02:41 to 00:02:48 It was between 1st and 2nd Cherry Creek on Jackson Street. Great huge front yard, big front tree. From 00:02:48 to 00:02:52 We'd play in it all the time. But Gladys was a great lady. From 00:02:52 to 00:02:55 She liked to drink her whiskey. She liked to bowl. From 00:02:55 to 00:02:59 She liked to smoke. And just had a good time. From 00:02:59 to 00:03:09 On my mom's side, it was a whole different kind of people. My mom's dad was a lawyer and a judge from Minnesota. From 00:03:09 to 00:03:15 He grew up on a farm there. He was raised with a real strict constitution. From 00:03:15 to 00:03:22 They were Methodists. Kind of like Methodists, they were more strict than, although they did drink and play cards. From 00:03:22 to 00:03:25 Where in Minnesota? Mankato. From 00:03:25 to 00:03:34 I should have said Gladys and Douglas were in Denver. But Leslie and all of my mom's parents lived in Mankato. From 00:03:34 to 00:03:40 He grew up on the farm. Family homesteaded in 1864 in Eagle Lake, Minnesota. From 00:03:40 to 00:03:47 And then they moved the kids to town 25 years later so they could go to high school and have a good school. From 00:03:47 to 00:03:55 Leslie was about 5'8". I don't think he ever weighed over 150 pounds. From 00:03:55 to 00:04:05 He was just religious about staying fit, walked all the time. He was a municipal judge for some 50-some years and he was 80 years old. From 00:04:05 to 00:04:14 He had a great crop of hair until he died at 96. It was just white and he had a nickname of "Old Silver Dome". From 00:04:14 to 00:04:20 He taught a lot about discipline, but also about fun. From 00:04:20 to 00:04:26 At age 70, he learned to water ski because they would take us out on the lake and we'd go water skiing. From 00:04:26 to 00:04:34 He went on a backpacking trip with my family then. But I learned a lot of values about compassion and caring from them. From 00:04:34 to 00:04:44 My grandmother, his wife, Olive, was extremely smart, fluent in four languages. She knew how to cook and sew and bake. From 00:04:44 to 00:04:48 It was a delight spending time with her and special fun when they would come out. From 00:04:48 to 00:04:55 I have great fond memories of all the three grandparents that were alive during my youth. From 00:04:55 to 00:05:03 I feel blessed to have known them. They were all dead by the time I finished college, but it was a great time to know them. From 00:05:03 to 00:05:18 So my grandparents, like your mom, my paternal grandfather, Samuel Lathrop Fowler, died when my dad, Will, was probably 11 or 12 years old of Alzheimer's. From 00:05:18 to 00:05:32 He moved back to Texas and actually died there with his sister. My grandmother, Louise Randlund Fowler, was from Texas. From 00:05:32 to 00:05:49 Her father and mother lived there and then her mother died. And so then there was another litter, if you will, of step-siblings and they were all from Texas. From 00:05:49 to 00:05:56 So Louise lived, the little Fowler boys, all four of them grew up in Boulder. From 00:05:56 to 00:06:04 They were all born in Boulder. And they lived up Boulder Canyon on Sunshine Ranch. From 00:06:04 to 00:06:13 Later, Samuel had built the road from the top of Flagstaff over to Green Mountain and Green Mountain Reservoir. From 00:06:13 to 00:06:23 He was a civil engineer. And he then, they were able to buy a house, 935 Ninth Street, which you guys have probably seen. From 00:06:23 to 00:06:34 Anyway, that's where my dad grew up. My maternal side was Fred Stanley White from Collingwood, Ontario. From 00:06:34 to 00:06:42 And he was one of, I don't know, four or five kids. The extended White family was very prominent there. From 00:06:42 to 00:06:56 And his dad was a wheelwright. And in the archives of pictures you guys have, there's a picture of his wheelwright shop in Collingwood, Ontario, which is kind of close to Lake Huron, actually. From 00:06:56 to 00:07:15 And so Fred Stanley White, his mom was Flora MacDonald, who, if you remember in Scottish lore, Flora MacDonald helped Bonnie Prince Charles flee Scotland under English oppression. From 00:07:15 to 00:07:24 I forget which years that was, probably 1700s. Anyway, so he came from Canada, moved to Chicago with his cousin. From 00:07:24 to 00:07:35 And he went to pharmacy school at Northwestern and established a very nice career as a pharmacist, very successful. From 00:07:35 to 00:07:41 As far as my mother knew, she never went through the depression, her grandmother. From 00:07:41 to 00:07:52 His, what my maternal grandmother, Nina White, was part German. Her dad was a T-merchant in England, but he was German. From 00:07:52 to 00:08:07 Don't know that much about that side of the tribe, but there is quite a bit of trickle-down from the Fred Stanley White side and his brothers and cousins, the pharmacy crew, in Chicago, Winnetteka. From 00:08:07 to 00:08:15 So that's kind of it. My fun memories, Fred Stanley White had one eye. From 00:08:15 to 00:08:22 He had a glass eye and he used to take it out when we were little kids and he would put it on the counter in the bathroom. From 00:08:22 to 00:08:31 He also, they both, my grandparents, and I don't remember if Grandma Fowler did have false teeth, but Fred Ninam did have false teeth. From 00:08:31 to 00:08:47 And we always thought that was, my brother and I thought that was hysterical. We lived in a little house down on Prospect, kind of between Jackson, so Jackson, no, it's LaSalle and Monroe or Madison. From 00:08:47 to 00:09:00 And I see it from the street all the time driving up Old Teagap. And so a lot of times when we lived in Boulder, we would come down here and see them. From 00:09:00 to 00:09:24 And it was interesting because Fred White was very averse to driving at night. And that's kind of an interesting story because, you know, we lived so close to Palmer Park and down where they lived, I always thought that was a big deal to go to Palmer Park for a picnic with Jim and Flo and Craig and Bitsy. From 00:09:24 to 00:09:29 And it turns out it was no big deal at all. You could walk practically. From 00:09:29 to 00:09:34 So that was kind of an interesting thing. Fred White loved boxing. From 00:09:34 to 00:09:49 And when we would stay over at their little house on Prospect, it was usually Friday night fights or something. Anyway, we would watch with him on their black and white, and he would give us money, and we would bet on who was going to win the fights. From 00:09:49 to 00:10:01 And then so my brother and I used to win, sometimes we'd win 15, 25, 30 cents betting with Fred, whose name was Bumpaw. So I have a lot more memories of them. From 00:10:01 to 00:10:11 I do have some good memories of Louise Fowler. She'd raised four kids in the Depression, much like Nana Hill, all boys all in Boulder. From 00:10:11 to 00:10:29 And she'd worked at the University of Colorado. And by the time I remember her, she was old and a bit frail and pretty quick had to go to the nursing home out by where Lauren, out where you lived on Baseline right there. From 00:10:29 to 00:10:35 And that's where she died when I was in second grade. Fred and Nana lived much longer. From 00:10:35 to 00:10:52 Fred lived until I was like a junior, sophomore in high school, was when he died. And the funny family story you probably remember, Flu and Jim used to always have Thanksgiving at their house, and they lived down on Calibre. From 00:10:52 to 00:11:01 And the whole time I was a little kid, Nana would always say, "Well, this is Fred's last Christmas." Fred's last Christmas, Fred's last Thanksgiving. From 00:11:01 to 00:11:17 And about the time I was five or six, I said to my dad, "Why does she say that? He's sitting right there." And so that became a joke that I still talk to my brother about and my cousin Craig, whose house we were having this. From 00:11:17 to 00:11:22 And we all found that as kids. Like, why does she say this time and time again? From 00:11:22 to 00:11:29 Fred's sitting right there and he lived another 15 years. So that's kind of a weird story. From 00:11:29 to 00:11:41 But that's kind of it from my memories of grandparents. And there are some great-grandmothers' paintings from Boulder that you all each have one, as you know. From 00:11:41 to 00:11:46 So, up I should talk while... You have other stuff? From 00:11:46 to 00:11:58 I don't have a memory of this, but I know of a story. And I was just reading about it of my great-grandfather, great-grandfather, on my mom's side, J. Iris Lee Knot. From 00:11:58 to 00:12:10 And, excuse me, Morse, and he was the one that homesteaded in Minnesota in 1864. And he was part of a posse. From 00:12:10 to 00:12:20 Literally think about that on horseback, on a posse. And he was helping defend a bridge to keep the young field... From 00:12:20 to 00:12:26 Youngers. Youngers and the Jesse James and his brother from getting across that bridge. From 00:12:26 to 00:12:36 He was also part of a posse that would defend their territory from the Indians back then. And my mom can recount stories from that from the 1930s. From 00:12:36 to 00:12:47 So it's...you know, they were kind of original pioneers of this area called Eagle Lake in Blu-Earth County in Minnesota. And so my grandfather had some stories that he would regale us with. From 00:12:47 to 00:12:56 One fun story about my grandfather, Pop Morse, on my mom's side, is he smoked a cigar. He loved smoking cigars. From 00:12:56 to 00:13:06 But remember, I said he was kind of a rigid constitutional person. He stuck to a schedule and he would smoke one cigar a day. From 00:13:06 to 00:13:12 That was all he would allow himself. And when he turned 80, he thought about giving up cigar smoking. From 00:13:12 to 00:13:22 80, mind you. And we told him, "Pops, that's what we called him, pops. You just can't...you're 80 years old." Well, remember, he went on to live to be 96. From 00:13:22 to 00:13:38 So...and the only reason he stopped working at 94 is the city of Mankato, which is where they lived, condemned his building that he'd been in since he first started practicing law in 1920s. From 00:13:38 to 00:13:47 And they tore it down to build a mall. And so he decided he was too old to move offices and so he retired. From 00:13:47 to 00:13:56 But again, that shows you kind of the strength and structure he had. But he wasn't a man that you were afraid of. From 00:13:56 to 00:14:07 You really...he brought you in. He endeared to himself to you. So I remember my grandparents in Minnesota lived in this old big house. From 00:14:07 to 00:14:11 It had four stories. And the laundry was in the basement. From 00:14:11 to 00:14:20 And it was down these stone winding stairs that you kind of had to duck. And it was kind of just this dark cave. From 00:14:20 to 00:14:28 I kind of liked going down there, but I never went down there by myself. A fun story about my grandfather. From 00:14:28 to 00:14:36 So this is where the girls get the angst. Yeah. Well, then the other fun thing is the bats like to come into the fourth story. From 00:14:36 to 00:14:43 So my grandfather would arm us with baseball gloves and fishing nets. And we'd go up the stairs to the attic room. From 00:14:43 to 00:14:51 And these were normal stairs. It wasn't creepy. You're a drop down and we'd walk up the stairs into this big room and we'd go around catching a bat. From 00:14:51 to 00:14:57 And if we caught a bat, that meant we could go get ice cream. And so we loved doing that. From 00:14:57 to 00:15:02 So he had a lot of fun. Even though he was kind of strict and stern, we had a lot of fun. From 00:15:02 to 00:15:10 So I think we both are blessed to have known our grandparents for when we did. Yeah, some...you should tell them about pops in the Supreme Court. From 00:15:10 to 00:15:15 The last case he tried in Minnesota. I think you know that better than I do. From 00:15:15 to 00:15:20 Okay. Well, pops was getting really old. And I think he was... From 00:15:20 to 00:15:23 80s plus. Oh, no, he was in his 90s. From 00:15:23 to 00:15:25 This was like... But his mind was super sharp. From 00:15:25 to 00:15:34 But he was...yeah, he was probably 93. And he did a lot of probate and a lot of probate of farms in Minnesota. From 00:15:34 to 00:15:37 Because there's a lot of big farming. A lot of big farms, a lot of turnovers. From 00:15:37 to 00:15:52 He said, "You know, now I'm taking care of my original clients, kids, or grandkids in probate." And he had one difficult probate case that there was tax implications and this and that. From 00:15:52 to 00:16:04 And we went through the appellate court in Minnesota, ended up at the Minnesota Supreme Court. And I think by this time he'd had a botched surgery on his right cheek. From 00:16:04 to 00:16:08 So he had a droopy face. He had a cancerous spot right here. From 00:16:08 to 00:16:12 And unfortunately not a good surgeon. So he cut a nerve. From 00:16:12 to 00:16:14 And so he ruled. Got his facial nerve. From 00:16:14 to 00:16:18 Oh, and he just had this terrible drop. Because he was so proud. From 00:16:18 to 00:16:24 So anyhow, fast forward a tiny bit. So this has climbed through all these courts. From 00:16:24 to 00:16:34 And I don't remember exactly what the issue was. But, you know, here's pops this old, old lawyer. From 00:16:34 to 00:16:50 And he gets this judge who's probably in his fifties on the Minnesota Supreme Court. And at the beginning of the trial, the Supreme Court, one of the justices said, "Well, Mr. Morse, what is your anticipated outcome? From 00:16:50 to 00:17:01 And why, what do you aim to get out of this?" And he said, "Well, Judge, I aim to get this done before I die." And the judge laughed. From 00:17:01 to 00:17:03 And he did. Yeah. From 00:17:03 to 00:17:07 He was not somebody you messed with. I mean, he knew his stuff. From 00:17:07 to 00:17:11 So thank you for sharing that. That's a good story. From 00:17:11 to 00:17:16 Yeah, he was a good man. And the judge cited in his paper. From 00:17:16 to 00:17:18 Yep. Okay. From 00:17:18 to 00:17:28 [BLANK_AUDIO]